"The only way to get what you really want is to let go of what you don't want."   -Iyanla Vanzant

"One day my soul just opened up." -Iyanla Vanzant

"The process of living encourages you to leap and to fly, to run and to soar, to meander and to piddle, to embrace and to release. What you tell yourself about your ability to do one or all of these things at any given time determines how hard life will be for you." - Iyanla Vanzant